Release attachment to the outcome and manifest your dreams more quickly!To manifest your desires you need to release attachment to the outcome. When we are very attached to something happening it is easy to get disconnected from your higher self. If you want something to happen very badly, when it doesn’t arrive you feel negative emotions, which in turn pulls you farther from Source Energy. When you are attached to the outcome you are not in the flow of life. Instead, you are operating from a place of resistance and lack and pushing what you want farther away from you. When you experience something wonderful, or when you think a certain experience will be very joyous (large sums of money, a certain relationship, travel to an exotic locale), it is easy to become attached. There is a difference, however, between desiring something and having positive emotions and feelings when you think about it, and desiring something so badly that you have negative emotions because it has not yet come to pass. Having money and intimate relationships often fall into this latter category. This is why so many people find Mr. or Ms. Right after they have given up on love! It happened to me, my mother, and my sister. For me, I was in a really happy place where I just wanted to have fun with my friends and enjoy my summer, and then I met someone. I’m sure it has been said to already, but it’s true- you find someone special when you stop looking. This is because you are now unattached. You are not having negative feelings when you think about relationships! You are no longer pushing away that which you desire through your negative emotions. Once you release attachment to the outcome you can focus on what you want, not what you don't have yet. Think about something you have gotten easily. You were probably somewhat relaxed, and didn’t get upset every time something didn’t go exactly as planned. You stayed in the flow, and knew everything would work out ok. Positive expectation and a relaxed manner will really go a lot farther than obsessing about every little twist and turn your life takes. Life is full of twists and turns, and they often lead to something better, but only if you believe it and stay in the flow. Someone in my life once said about attachment, “It’s like being attached to a sunset, and getting upset when it is over. Why? It will rise and set again.” Even if you don’t know when something will happen again, if you believe it will and stay relaxed, then it will come back to you. This happens in my garden a lot. In the past I obsessed over getting certain plants to grow and flower, and I was most often unsuccessful. Due to my many gardening failures, I just relaxed. I watered when I thought it needed it and fertilized on occasion, but I stopped obsessing over how many flower buds were on each plant and what else I could do to make my plants flower more prolifically. Of course, once I stopped this, flowers started popping up everywhere! Of course, I didn’t neglect my plants and I made good choices for my zone and the individual plant’s needs, but I just let my plants grow at their own pace. Now they are rewarding me beautifully, and I am most appreciative. Take time now to think about areas in your life where you are and have been successful. What emotions and attitudes did you have? How can you translate that over to areas where you still haven’t gotten everything you want? Also remember, everything happens in its own perfect time. If you haven’t yet gotten what you are desiring, acknowledge that you may be sending negative vibrations, and that it may not be the perfect time. Relax, have faith, and go with the flow! Send positive thoughts towards your goals. Keep them pure with positive energy, instead of cluttering up your goals with doubt and negativity. You always want to feel good about what you are wishing for. My life is flowing along at the perfect pace for me. I relax, go with the flow, and enjoy life! I love the journey and the destination and release attachment to the outcome. I have fun no matter what I'm doing! More ways to
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